Insights on Authenticity, Connection, and Pride.
Thoughtful reflections and practical advice for gay men navigating life, career, and relationships in the modern world.
Being alone as a gay man has nothing to do with being single
A full calendar. Friends. A relationship. And still alone. On the difference between openness and being seen There are men with full calendars. Friends. Plans.
Out for years. Still adapting.
You’ve been yourself for years. You still adapt. On the habit that no longer needs anaudience There are men who have been out for years.
Coaching for gay men: what it is and what it isn’t
He functions fine. There’s just something he can’t place. On what coaching for gay men actually involves Someone sends me a message. He’s 38. Been
Coming out at 35
Coming out has a beginning. No end. On men who have lived openly for years and still conceal something they can’t quite name. There’s a
Gay expat in Amsterdam — belonging without feeling at home
Amsterdam seemed like the place. Belonging and feeling at home are not the samething. For gay expats who don’t quite land. Amsterdam is a city
Why intimacy as a gay man sometimes feels so difficult
There are men who understand everything and still don’t move differently. On intimacy, adaptation, and what the body remembers. There are men who have everything
